Thursday, October 28, 2010

Zero Day!

What better way to celebrate a zero birthday than in a birthday suit! Grandma Rudd acted as the photographer today and got some pretty good photos!



There's NO WAY I could've carried the babies to this day. The longest I've ever heard of someone carrying triplets was 37 weeks. Even then I was surprised that the doctor went that far. Point is, October 28th was my original due date. Today the trio is 7 weeks and 2 days old.

I definitely won't pretend that feeding and caring for triplets is easy. We've had help since they were born and a night nanny. However, it is so much fun to have three completely different personalities in the house to laugh at and watch change everyday. There hasn't been a triple meltdown at the same time yet so we're considering ourselves lucky. Still just a lot of grunting and groaning. However, last night I felt like I was doing that game where you rub your stomach and pat your head. I was rocking a bouncer with my foot, feeding Zachary, and holding off Leah with a pacifier. Meanwhile we were all watching Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants. They seemed to like that one. :) I let them watch all my chick flicks in the middle of the night.

Leah visited the Ear Nose Throat doctor this week. Of course you walk away paying $40 having a doctor see you for about three minutes but I would rather have that then a major problem. He felt her chin and said he doesn't expect the lump to come back. Still not really sure what it was. Possibly a clogged salivary gland. We will go back in six months though to follow up about her nose and if her stenosis has improved.

She was pooped out when we got back...



Here's a good idea of how the chins keep multiplying on our little man. Not so little anymore!



The boys playing in their monkey outfits.



Dad and the trio after a good meal.



Grandma Nelson went back to Idaho last weekend. She couldn't decide which baby to take...then she decided she didn't want to get up every three hours in the night and left them all with me. :) We sure loved having her here though!

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Trick or Treat



The kids got into the candy again.... No wonder Caleb is 8 pounds. Caleb's mad because Zachary just made a move for his licorice.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Under Control...

Well, all my angels are sleeping...and that includes Clark. Poor guy. He is working very long hours right now and barely has time to cuddle all three babies before he hits the pillow and starts all over again.



He luckily has been able to find time on the weekends to get out on some good bike rides though! He and a friend rode over 100 miles this past Saturday up to a lake that borders southern Oklahoma. I know, crazy. When they reached the lake they were feeling really good and had made it in about 2.5 hours. Then I didn't hear from him for another 5.5 hours. Those are the times when I start to panic. Apparently they rode against the wind on the way back and stopped at several Sonics to cool off. They made it though! Now he's trying to talk me into a long ride. I just tell him we need to wait until I can at least bend my knees again!





The babies are starting to become more awake and alert which means any free time between feedings is getting shorter and shorter since they are needing more attention. Starting at 8am (and every three hours after), Miss Leah gets fed. Then Zachary at 8:30am and Caleb at 9:00am. By the time everyone is happy and settled, like I mentioned before, we only have about an hour until we start over (If we're lucky and everyone has cooperated). We have to choose our interim activity wisely. Mine usually is mixing milk or showering. Mom's usually is a walk down the street or cleaning. Either way, the trio can't be fed in tandem so it still takes a while. We could feed them in tandem during the day but that would throw off their night feedings when only one person is awake doing it. They still have to be watched closely for choking/breathing/swallowing coordination too so feeding two at a time could be a problem. They are getting better everyday though. Point is, the three-hour schedule comes around quickly.

Went to the pediatrician this week because Caleb had a 'rash' on his upper chest, neck, and shoulders. He also had crusty eye issues and congestion. Doctor said not to worry about any of it and he just had a clogged tear duct and baby acne. I knew both those things already but when I called to ask the nurse about them, she insisted I come in. So whatever. Because we went though, Caleb got to be weighed. I'm happy to say we have an EIGHT-POUND baby! I was shocked! He weighed 8 lbs 1 oz at six weeks old (38 weeks 5 days). He is gaining around 2 oz a day. He feels like a monster compared to the other two but I didn't think he was that big already. No more preemie diapers for him. Here he is trying to escape this crazy place...



There is a wet bar right in the center of our house that we never use. When trying to figure out how we were going to work everything when the babies came, we decided to turn it into a 'baby bar.' The babies sleep in the dining room right off the kitchen and everything they need is in the bar. We turned the counter into a double changing table and have clothes, diapers, bath stuff, etc... in all the drawers and cabinets. Seems to be working good so far. Once they move back into their cribs I'm not sure we'll keep the baby bar going.



Here is my laboratory each night when I prepare the next five bottles for each baby. Lots of measuring and mixing and organizing bottle parts and labeling bottles. Took me almost an hour last night. Thank goodness we have the counter space.



I've started mixing half breastmilk and formula. This went fine for about three feedings then I think they caught on and wouldn't have anything to do with their bottles. Hopefully there aren't other underlying issues going on and they just don't like the taste or something. Next feeding I'm going to do exclusively formula and see if that's the case or if we need to gradually work with them.

Zachary had his eye exam last week. My 'mama bear' came out when I showed up to the office 45 minutes early (his eating time) in order to feed Zachary before the exam. They told me they like them to have empty stomachs so they don't throw up while laying down flat. I was super annoyed that no one told me that because I planned the exam around his feeding and can't get off schedule with two others at home. Obviously I told the receptionist that and how annoyed I was that this wasn't communicated. Everyone in the waiting room was looking at me and probably wondering why I was so mad about postponing his bottle 50 minutes. They said usually they tell the mothers that information but forgot to tell me. Hmmm... We got in right away and I just fed him afterwards which was fine. Usually I don't act like that in public so I was surprised and honestly, I didn't care what anyone at that office thought. I felt inconvenienced by the whole appointment anyway. That's the lack of flexibility coming out in me again. Zachary passed his exam with flying colors. I didn't watch but apparently they pried his eyes open and took a sterile paperclip to look behind them. They were looking to see if his retina was developing properly. I sat in the corner and luckily it only took about a minute. His eyes were all puffy and dilated but here he is with a nice post-bath comb over later that day. Clark refuses to let me comb his hair like that if he's around.



I don't know what it is about laying two babies in a boppy together but it always proves to be entertaining in one way or another.



This last picture is just cute. I'll keep the baby's identity anonymous since he/she wouldn't want a picture of their backside on the blog anyway. :)

Thursday, October 14, 2010

What Day is it?

189 Diapers,
168 bottles,
very little sleep,
and one week later...



we are still alive.

I was surprised to learn that it was Thursday today. Really, I don't know what day it is 99% of the time. We are pretty blurry-eyed around here and luckily have a little relief every other night with the night nanny. Our schedules have been go-go-go around the clock and I'd like to say we are working on adrenaline right now.

Having three sweet babies at home is so much fun and truly amazes me everyday. We feel blessed that they are doing well so far. What also amazes me is how many diapers and milk these kids go through! I've started to cut back on my pumping so we are breaking into the freezer milk and will eventually switch them over to formula. When all is said and done I will have pumped for about seven weeks. Having to pump THEN feed is definitely too time consuming with three around. So I'm sad to give it up but I'm glad they have received breastmilk for the amount of time that they did.

All three are feeding really well, taking 2-3 ounces of milk every feeding. Caleb would eat double that if we let him. It's hysterical before he eats because he goes into a frenzy and will pretty much suck on anything. Clark likes to tease and laugh at him but I just think it's sad.

Caleb trying to eat Clark's nose...



Today my Mom went to the grocery store so I fed all three. Most the time doing it alone goes fine. However, sometimes Caleb has a freak out because he wants more. I set him next to Leah in the boppy so she could console him. They seriously sat like this for about 30 minutes.



We're still trying to figure Zachary out. He doesn't sleep much between feedings, maybe an hour and seems to have a more sensitive temperament. We thought maybe he didn't like the noise and stimulation so we've put him in the other room several times. However, today he sat in the kitchen after eating and was such a good little man! Wide awake as ever. He had his first outing to the pediatrician this week and weighed 4 lbs 14 ounces! He's probably hit the 5 lb mark by now. He'll go to the eye specialist tomorrow to check things out and hopefully he'll never have to go back.



Of course we are experiencing lots of 'firsts' this week. I won't picture them all but here is Leah after her first bath.



They also went on their first walk with Mom and Dad! Clark was so excited to take them out but it kind of stresses me out to throw something new into their schedule. I'm sure the flexibility will come. :) He loaded them all up in their car seats and off we went!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Home at Last

Today was the big day. The trio was reunited again after almost five weeks in the NICU. The NICU said to come back for halloween and dress the babies up. Probably won't. However, my attitude should not discount the care they received there. The doctor and nurses were great. I'm just happy to be gone after over three months of that place.

Last night I decided to 'room in' with Zachary although I didn't do it with the other two. I was so anxious about him having another bradycardia hours before he was able to leave like the last couple times. Rooming in allows the baby to be taken off the monitors. So I cheated a bit. Of course I don't want anything bad to happen.....but I just wanted him home. He was very good all night and ate well. We had our own seperate room and even got to order breakfast in the morning. The nurses were all excited about that but I told them I had eaten off the breakfast menu way too many times to get any sort of excited about it.

The babies eat every three hours.....regardless if they are awake or not. It seems wrong to wake them up from such peaceful sleep. Until they are on the normal weight and growth scales, they need to eat regularly. This ordeal takes about 1.5 hours. That leaves a little over an hour to get anything done we need to....like shower or eat. Add 30 minutes of pumping to my schedule and I barely have time to sit before starting all over. Not sure how long the three-hour schedule will need to be kept but it might eventually cause a little craziness here. We have a night nanny starting tomorrow night whose job is to get up and feed babies so hopefully that will provide some relief from the late-night feedings.

Today we put on their Dr. Suess onesies for picture time. I had this other cute idea in mind but the babies would have none of me putting them in certain positions. They are getting strong and feisty. Sooo....we just laid them there. Lots of laughing followed though to see them interact and touch each other. Notice the size different between Thing 1 and Thing 2. Caleb is over two pounds bigger!



Caleb's first bath. His weight for his one month check was 6 lbs 10 oz. Leah's weight was 5 lbs 3 oz.



More onesies



For some reason Caleb seems to be the only one pictured. We think he's hilarious and could just sit and laugh at him all day.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Two Down, One to Go...

Don't worry, the little bugger Zachary still isn't home. Both times we have been within hours of taking him off the monitors, he has a bradycardia. We think it's because Caleb asked Zachary to stay with him. So we'll let all this slide since Zachary is sacrificing for his brother.

So although Zachary is stuck in NICU prison until this Saturday (if he behaves), our other two are home!!! We brought Leah home yesterday and Caleb home today. Leah had a rough first night at home missing her brothers and not being used to a quiet house. Since Caleb has been home today she's been sleeping great. Clark took the night shift last night and had just as rough of a night as Leah. He has this week off of work so let the record state that he VOLUNTEERED to stay up. Needless to say, I think he'll opt out tonight.

She came home on antibiotics for her abscess and will continue those until Saturday. Other than that, all the babies are just on vitamins and breast milk fortifier! Zachary will have to see a special eye doctor next week because he was less than 1500 grams when he was born but the other two are off the hook.

Their weights today were:

36 weeks 5 days (4 weeks old)
Leah: 4 lbs 15 oz
Zachary: 4 lbs 5 oz
Caleb: 6 lbs 5 oz

Here are some of the cute onesies that were made at my baby shower so long ago. Can't believe there are finally babies in them! :)

Leah


Caleb


Zachary will get to wear his inaugural onesie soon but until then....here's a picture of Dad taking a nice nap after feeding him.



I can't hardly wait to get them all home and bid farewell to the hospital. Five more days....