Sunday, May 29, 2011

Oh Crap...


We always knew this guy would be the first to take off. He is just starting to discover how to move his knees forward so it's only a matter of time before I set him somewhere and come back to find him gone! We are looking into getting some gates to keep him contained. All of this development has coincided with a growth spurt. He finishes 3 out of 4 bottles without any help from me (which is unheard of) and has started eating two solid food feedings/day with the other two. He eats less than them....but he's eating nonetheless. He refuses to eat anything green so he's stuck on carrots, sweet potatoes, squash, and oatmeal cereal. I don't really care because I'm just glad he'll let me stick a spoon in his mouth. Usually it still takes me about five minutes to convince him. Lots of gagging ensues....then he starts to eat. It's quite a production twice a day. But what isn't a production with our most dramatic child. He's still a little guy and probably always will be but we can never underestimate what he's capable of!

I was getting some video of him rocking and the other two thought he was so cool! This video is more of him moving and the next one is of them laughing and talking with each other. I love to see them interact more and always wonder what they're saying!




Monday, May 16, 2011

Naps and Getting to Know Caleb

Aside from the first month of the babies being home, this period right now has been the second most difficult for me. One word:

NAPS.

I love them and hate them. The babies are in that really weird transition where they are moving from three naps a day down to two. HOWEVER, they are still not capable of staying up quite long enough to make it all the way until bedtime. If their first or second naps aren't long enough, then I run into problems. Everyday I'm faced with a napping dilemma. When they are finally ready for that third nap, it is only 1 1/2-2 hours away from their bedtime. So if I put them down, bedtime gets pushed back significantly. If I don't, I'm dealing with three overly tired babies which, at the end of the day, can make me overly tired as well. Lately I have been foregoing the third nap because 9 times out of 10, only one or two of the babies need one so even if I put whoever down, I would still have one or two awake. That would mean that the babies who stayed awake would be needing to go to bed while someone else is eating. I have found that is not a good combination. So I usually eat something, roll up my sleeves, and prepare for the last couple hours of the day to be a bit chaotic. I do move their bedtime up when I skip the third nap which results in a 5:30-5:45pm bedtime. Fine by me! Just always a risk with how early they will wake up in the morning! Any suggestions on managing naps at this age?

In another month, this will not be an issue AT ALL which is a relief. I'm definitely anxious for the transition to be over because that means their awake periods will generally be longer and we'll have a little more flexibility to our day. For now though, I'll just celebrate my daily victories of making it through those last couple hours!

This past weekend we did something our little family has never done before...

we went out to eat at a restaurant!! Of course we went during their BEST time of the day when they would be the happiest. This happened to be at 3pm so we loaded up and went to Red Robin! Since it was the afternoon there was lots of tables and room for us. The people around us were very nice and patient with all the toys the babies kept throwing on the floor. The babes were all very well behaved and really just interested in looking around. They don't get out much so anything new to look at is like gold. Of course I thoroughly wiped down the table and menus and as soon as one of those toys touched the floor it was out of play. I'm sure I'll get over my germ phobia eventually. For now I'm just the crazy, neurotic mom with all the wipes in her purse. :) We were there about 45 minutes and felt like our adventure was pretty successful. Our meals were pretty dang good also. YUM. Caleb and Clark had the BIG Whiskey River BBQ Burger with extra fries and of course campfire sauce! The picture on the table was too tempting for him.



Zachary was really confused on what he should order. He couldn't find any bottles off the menu. He ended up just eating the menu. Leah was there too, don't worry. She is watching her figure so we just split a Whiskey River BBQ Wrap! Just didn't snap a picture of her unfortunately.

This past week I asked Clark which baby he laughed at the most. He said all of them but I think that's just because he felt bad choosing someone. I said I probably laugh at Caleb the most. It could be the fact that he is the most loud, vocal, and animated. They all three have adorable personalities but his is just a little more obvious because of his outbursts, screaming, and outward interest in everything. He's the only baby that really sits and concentrates on things. During one of Clark's lunches, we set up Skype and had each baby sit at the computer. The other two didn't really pay attention and just looked at other things but Caleb was in a trance. He couldn't take his eyes off the screen and was trying so hard to figure out what was going on. So funny!


I built him a necklace so he would have something to suck on at any given moment. He seemed to like it!


He is definitely the biggest toy monger. He has gigantic paws so that's definitely an advantage. Poor Leah never stands a chance against him. Whenever I sit him in the triplet table and give someone else the baby laptop, it's hilarious because he gets filled with all his toy envy and goes for it. This video is short but it is so funny and around our house it is known as "the grab". We sure do love this kid.





Lastly, I caught this video a couple days ago at the end of Leah and Zachary's conversation. Clark said if you close your eyes and play the video it sounds like two dolphins.

Can anyone translate baby?


Monday, May 9, 2011

A Two Year Old...

We have three legitimate 8-month olds on our hands. That means we've raised the equivalent of a two-year old!!

Here's their Mother's Day/8-month pictures. These were all taken in about five minutes since that's usually the time frame that three babies will be happy. They are ALL sitting on their own and I am so proud!

*Don't mind Zachary's drool collection down his shirt. Gray is apparently not a good color for a drooler*

It started out pretty good...


Then the boys realized Leah had something interesting and the toy envy set in...


"Give me that!"


Caleb won and Zachary started plotting with Leah how to get the '8' back...or he was just eating her shoulder, not sure which...


Telling secrets...


Leah obviously didn't like what he had to say...


Now they are all friends again and Leah has her '8' back! I love Caleb in this picture; however...


This one is the winner!

Sunday, May 1, 2011

Changing by the Second...

These three little humans just amaze me. Everyday I'm in awe of their curiosity and development. They are changing right before our eyes and it's incredible. This stage has been fun for us because it's obvious they think their Dad and Mom are the greatest people in the world (unfortunately I know that will change come the teenage years)! They just love our attention and affection and they are able to reciprocate with their own affection and excitement. I also love this stage because even on those days that frustration is high and patience is thin (every baby has their moments), they always forgive me of my weaknesses and still give me the sweetest smiles. So rewarding.

The babies are so curious lately. They love to explore anything and everything. They love to touch our faces and pull our noses/ears. They are hilarious when we eat in front of them because they can't take their eyes off us! Here's my view in the morning during a bowl of cereal.


Believe me, there is nothing interesting about my eating of bran flakes but they can't seem to concentrate on anything else!

They are definitely more aware of each other and probably questioning why two other babies are ALWAYS around! Zachary is definitely the worst when it comes to invading personal space. He started a wrestling match with Caleb...


Then Caleb cried mercy and I had to come save him.


I'm not sure what game they were playing here but regardless, they just like to stick their hands in the closest mouth, suck on feet that don't belong to them, pull ears, and poke eyes. We are already having to break things up occasionally when someone has turned and is kicking a sibling in the head. It's usually Leah who is the victim. Poor girl.


So 'operation unswaddle' is finally complete!!! Took long enough right? Zachary was easy. He took to it right away although he had to learn not to pull his pacifier out because I wasn't coming back. He LOVES to roll around in his crib and is a CRAZY sleeper. I went cold turkey with him. No problem at all.

Caleb took a few additional days of being unwrapped for naps but wrapped for bed. Then I slowly transitioned him to not being wrapped at all. He only had one day of terrible napping but soon got the picture. Now he likes to cuddle with a glo worm and dinosaur.

Leah took the longest. I tried several times but she just cried and cried. By the third baby, I just didn't have the patience so I just decided she would let me know when she was ready. I started wrapping her more loosely so that she could get her hands out if she wanted. That method seemed to work because every time I came in, her arms were out. So just in the last couple days I have not been wrapping her at all. I had to cut the little handle off her pacifier so there was nothing to grab. That helped as well because, like Zachary, she would immediately go for it and pull it out.

Yay that we're not swaddling babies anymore!!! Definitely helps the pain in my back. HOWEVER, as a result of this operation, Zachary has had free access to his hands and has taken to sucking his thumb.

I don't really care that he's started doing it but I HATE when we are all playing during the day and he's just lying there with his thumb in his mouth! I also hate that it's a habit that will likely continue for several years. Now if it were Caleb that started sucking his thumb I'd probably be jumping for joy because he needs something that is soothing. But alas, it is not. So I'm dealing with it. :)

I had this secret goal that I didn't want to say out loud because it may not have happened. I REALLY wanted all the babies to be sitting on their own by their 8-month birthday! Two weeks ago I was getting bummed because I was pretty sure it wasn't going to happen. Then all the sudden Leah was able to sit on her own!! It was so weird...like one day she decided to do it. So she sits unassisted while I have been working with the boys to get them on the right track. Several places I've read say that a laundry basket works wonders for the sitting muscles and creates less worry for the mom because babies won't hit their heads!


So the boys have been stuck in the basket while Leah just laughs at them! Surprisingly though, after just a few days in the basket....Caleb is able to sit unassisted right next to Leah! So I have about six days to get Zachary ready. He's really close. Just would much rather be rolling since he can cover more ground that way. Anyway, I'm really excited and it is so fun to watch them discover their world from a new perspective.

Now to each individual baby's update...

Leah:

-She obviously wins the prize for being first to sit and also being first to roll!
-She has really found her voice and definitely likes to tell her brothers what she thinks.
-She is the BEST eater of the three. Opens her mouth real wide and is ready for another bite immediately.
-She is so impatient when it comes to her bottle. You have less than three seconds after lying her down before a meltdown.
-Her nose is still an issue and runs constantly. We will get her a cat scan as she gets closer to her first birthday to see what's going on and how easily it can be fixed.
-She is SO social and smiles at everyone; however, in the past couple weeks at church while being held by someone else, she has had some of the most dramatic crying spells I've ever witnessed. I couldn't even calm her and ended up taking her outside. Not sure if stranger anxiety is setting in??
-No teeth yet. I was convinced those tops were coming through but that area is no longer red and swollen.
-She just melts our hearts and is so much fun to play with. Flails her arms and kicks her legs and recently has started scrunching her nose...maybe to show excitement. Not sure on that. So cute though.
-At eight months, she drinks 25.5 ounces of formula and eats five ounces of food each day.

Zachary:

-Seriously, the most sensitive baby you'd ever meet. Sensitive to loud noises, bright lights, scary faces, dark hair, barking dogs, wind, sun, Caleb's screaming, etc... You name it, it has made him cry at some point or another.
-He is so smiley and loves to be tickled. He wrestles with his dad and laughs the whole time.
-He is no longer on SimplyThick!! I weaned last week and he has done great for a few days. Thickener or not, he still needs help finishing each bottle because of his short attention span but he seems to be doing ok with his previous reflux issues.
-No teeth yet but he's the biggest drooler of the three.
-He rolls and rolls and rolls and rolls. I'm betting he'll be first to crawl because of his desire to move and grab things.
-He refuses to ever cuddle because of his high energy but he is so entertaining to watch and play with since he plays so well on his own.
-At eight months, he drinks 24.5 ounces of formula and eats two ounces of food each day.


Caleb:

-This kid has SO MUCH determination. Obviously we can only witness it in certain situations but if he wants to pick up a toy or turn to see something or scream his head off until he gets his food, he will do it. It is hilarious to watch. Hopefully that quality carries on through his life.
-He no longer screams incessantly! Yay!! He learned how to make raspberries with his lips and does that instead. SO MUCH BETTER.
-He is rolling front to back much more comfortably but at times has difficulty getting back because his arm is in the way.
-He takes second place in learning to sit and I'm betting he'll be the first to talk. Physical things don't seem to be his strong suit so I think he'll be the more intellectual of the three. :)
-He is so attentive to books when I read to him and seems very analytical. Just lets it all soak in.
-He is the BEST cuddler ever. Maybe because there is more to cuddle. He's got a good 5-6 pounds on Zachary. Crazy.
-At eight months he drinks 27.5 ounces of formula and eats six ounces of food everyday.